West Twenty-third St., New York, Sept. 22d, 18—. My Dear Madam,—I am sure you are too clear sighted not to have observed the
profound impression which your amiable qualities, intelligence and personal
attractions have made upon my heart, and as you have not repelled my attentions nor manifested
displeasure when I ventured to hint at the deep interest I felt in your welfare
and happiness, I cannot help hoping that you will receive an explicit
expression of my attachments, kindly and favorably. I wish it were in my power
to clothe the feelings I entertain for you in such words as should make my
pleadings irresistible; but after all what could I say, more than that you
are very dear to me, and that the most earnest desire of my
soul is to have the privilege of calling you my wife? Do you can you love me?
You will not, I am certain, keep me in suspense, for you are too good and kind
to trifle for a moment with sincerity like mine. Awaiting your answer, I
remain, with respectful affection, Ever yours,
Francis Templeton
To Francis Templeton, ESQ.,
West Forty-second St., New York, Sept. 24th, 18—. My Dear Mr. Templeton,—I
despise false delicacy, and therefore shall not pretend that I have been blind
to the state of your feelings. Nay, more, I will say that if your attentions
had been altogether unwelcome I should have treated them with a degree of
coldness which you say I have not shown. Widows, you
know, are supposed to have more experience and tact in these matters than
single ladies, and depend upon it if I had disliked you I should have known how
to make you aware of the fact. Under all the circumstances I think you may hope. I
shall be pleased to see you whenever you feel inclined to call, and meanwhile,
I remain, Yours very truly,
Clara Henderson
To Miss Maud Carter,
Pearl St., New York, March llth, 18—. My Dearest Maud,—I am off, to-morrow, and yet not altogether, for I leave my heart behind in your gentle keeping. You need not place a guard over it, however, for it is as impossible that it should stay away, as for a bit of steel to rush from a magnet. The simile is eminently correct, for you, my dear girl, are a magnet, and my heart is as true to you as steel. I shall make my absence as brief as possible. Not a day, not an hour, not a minute, shall I waste either in going or returning. Oh! this business! But I won’t complain, for we must have something for our hive besides honey—something that rhymes with it—and that we may have it, I must bestir myself. You will find me a faithful correspondent. Like the spider, I shall drop a line by (almost) every post; and mind, you must give me letter for letter I can’t give you credit. Your returns must be prompt and punctual.
Passionately yours,
Herbert Holton
To Herbert Holton, ESQ.,
Fifth Avenue, March 11th, 18—. Dear Herbert,—What a rattlebrain
you are! I cried for half an hour over your letter, though not that it was
particularly pathetic, but simply because it told me you were going away. Of
course I know that your journey is a matter of necessity, but that does not
help my loneliness. I have two injunctions to lay upon you, and I charge you by
your love, to obey them. They are comprised in six words —write often, and come back soon. I
won’t pay myself so poor a compliment as to suppose you will forget me for a moment.
Impatiently awaiting your return, believe me, Dear Herbert,
Yours affectionately,
Maud
Carter
To Miss Belle Carpenter,
Wall St., New York, Oct . 5th, 18—. My Dear Miss,—I am accustomed to speak plainly, and know little of the niceties of etiquette. Do not think the worse of me for opening my heart to you abruptly, without any preliminary flourishes. There cannot be anything offensive, I hope, in the candid declaration that I love you. If you will give me the opportunity, I will endeavor to prove my affection by devoting my whole life to the promotion of your happiness. I should regard the pleasure of calling you my wife as the greatest that earth could afford.
Most sincerely yours,
Albert Seaton
To Albert Seaton, ESQ.
East Thirty-eighth St., New York, Oct. 7th, 18—. Dear Sir,—I have received your
letter, and must say that there is an air of straight-forward sincerity about
it that I like. Fine phrases have never been much to my taste, for I have found
the language of truth simple and direct. Following your own example, and
waiving all evasion, I will say at once that I think you worthy of the
affection you solicit, and that, with the consent of my parents, I shall not
object to receive your addresses. I shall be at home to-morrow evening and shall
be glad to see you. Yours sincerely,
Belle Carpenter
To Miss Kate Martin,
Chicago, Iii., Sept. l0th, 18– My Dearest Kate,—This sheet of paper, though I should cover it with loving words, could never tell you truly how I long to see you again. Time does not run on with me now at the same pace as with other people; the hours seem days, the days weeks, while I am absent from you, and I have no faith in the accuracy of clocks and almanacs. Ah! if there was truth in clairvoyance, wouldn’t I be with you at this moment! I wonder if you are as impatient to see me as I am to fly to you? Sometimes it seems as if I must leave business and everything else to the Fates, and takes the first train to New York. However, the hours domove, though they don’t appear to, and in a few more weeks we shall meet again. Let me hear from you as frequently as possible in the meantime. Tell me of your health, your amusements and your affection.
Remember that every word you write will be a comfort
to me. Unchangeably yours,
William
Archer
To William Archer, ESQ.,
Bleecker St., New York, Sept. 16th, 18—. Dear William,—Your affectionate letter was most welcome. I won’t tell you
where I keep it, but I dare say you will guess that it is not very far from my heart. I need not
inform you, for you know it well, that you have my entire and undivided
affection, and that I look forward to your return with the most pleasurable
emotions. I am in excellent health, but cannot know real happiness until I
share it with yon. There, now I think you will not complain that I do not
reciprocate your devotion. According to the rules of etiquette I suppose I
ought to be more reserved; but truth is truth, and you shall never have aught
else
From your attached
Kate
Martin
To Miss Jane Grover,
Wednesday, Oct. 20th, 18– Dearest Jane,—The delightful hours
I have passed in your society have left an impression on my mind that is
altogether indelible, and cannot be effaced even by time itself. The frequent
opportunities I have possessed, of observing the thousand acts of amiability
and kindness which mark the daily tenor of your life, have ripened my feelings
of affectionate regard into a passion at once ardent and sincere, until I have
at length associated my hopes of future happiness with the idea of you as a life-partner
in them. Believe me, dearest Jane, this is no puerile fancy, but the matured
result of a long and warmly cherished admiration of your many charms of person
and mind. It is love—pure, devoted love: and I feel confident your knowledge of
my character will lead you to ascribe my motives to their true source.
May I then implore you to consult your own heart, and, should
this avowal of my fervent and honorable passion for you be crowned with your
acceptance and approval, to grant me permission to
refer the matter to your parents. Anxiously waiting your answer, I am, dearest
Jane,
Your sincere and faithful lover,
Henry Barclay
To Henry Barclay, ESQ.
Dear Henry,—I have just perused your
too flattering letter, and, believe me, I feel so excited that I scarcely know
how or what to reply. You cannot but have observed that the favorable
impressions I received on the night of our first meeting, have gradually
deepened as our intimacy matured, and it would be false modesty in me now to
disclaim a feeling of the sincerest and most affectionate regard-for you, after
such undoubted proofs of your attachment. Dear Henry, my heart is yours. Need I
say more than that your proposals to my parents will find a warm and not
uninterested advocate, in one to whom the acceptance of them will be
happiness—their rejection a misfortune?
Excuse the brevity of this letter, for I cannot trust myself to
say more than that I am,
Yours affectionately,
Jane Grover
To Miss Alice Martine,
Chestnut St., Philadelphia, May 2d, 18—. My Dear Miss,—I have intended
many times when we have been together to put the simple question, which this note
is intended to propose; but although it seems the easiest thing in the world to
make an offer of marriage, yet when the heart is as deeply interested in the
answer as mine is, it is apt to fail one at the critical moment. Can I, dare I
hope, that you will permit me to call you mine? Am I mistaken, misled by
vanity, in supposing that this proposal, made in the truest spirit of
respectful love, will not be displeasing to you? My position and prospects
warrant me in saying that I can provide for you a comfortable home, and I may
truly add that without you no place can be a home to me. Anxiously awaiting
your answer, I remain, Yours affectionately,
Ernest Irving
To Ernest Irving, ESQ.,
Green St., Philadelphia, May 5th, 18—. Dear Sir,—Your offer of marriage is certainly unexpected, but it is made in a manner so diffident and respectful as to preclude the possibility of its giving offense. I am not offended; but marriage is a serious matter, and although I confess my own inclinations are in your favor, I must advise with those who have a right to be consulted, before I give you a decided answer. I think I may say, however, in the meantime, that you need notdespair. Sincerely yours,
Alice Martine
To Miss Lizzie Bolton,
Madison Square, New York, Feb. 24th, 18—. Dear Miss,—Although I have been in
your society but once, the impression you have made upon me is so deep and powerful,
that I cannot forbear writing to you, in defiance of all rules of etiquette.
Affection is sometimes of slow growth; but sometimes too it springs up in a moment.
In half an hour after I was introduced to you, my heart was no longer my own. I
have not the assurance to suppose that I have been fortunate enough to create
any interest in yours; but will you allow me to cultivate your acquaintance in
the hope of being able to win your regard in the course of time? Petitioning
for a few lines in reply, I remain, dear Miss,
Yours devotedly,
Clarence Boardman
To Clarence Boardman, Esq.,
East Thirty-fourth St., New York, Feb. 27th, 18—. Dear Sir,—I ought, I suppose, to
call you severely to account for your declaration of love at first sight, but I
cannot in conscience do so ; for to tell you the truth, I have thought more
about you since our brief interview than I should be willing to admit, if you
had not come to confession first. And now a word or two in seriousness: We know
but little as yet of each other, and hearts should not be exchanged in the
dark. I shall be happy to receive you here as a friend, and as to our future
relations to each other, we shall be better able to judge what they ought to
be, when we know each other more intimately. I am, dear sir, Yours truly,
Lizzie Bolton
To Mr. Henry Hilton,
Walnut St., Philadelphia, Dec. 2d, 18—. Sir,—I have heard of your flirtations since you have been at New York. In fact I have been told that you were false enough to deny your engagement to me, in the hope of making yourself more acceptable as a beau to your new lady acquaintances. Under such circumstances I am quite willing to release you from all your promises. You are free, sir! I have no inclination to share your affections with half a dozen others. Nothing less than a whole heart will satisfy me.
Yours etc.,
Augusta Wells
To Miss Augusta Wells,
My Dear Gussie,—You have been imposed upon
; by whom I know not, but unquestionably by some one who has a grudge against
me. I have never since our engagement paid more attention to any lady than
ordinary politeness required. My heart has never wandered from you for a moment.
Dismiss such groundless suspicions from your mind. Your letter has wounded me
deeply. To break off our engagement would be to render me the most miserable of
men. I am willing that the strictest inquiry should be made into my conduct,
for it will bear the closest scrutiny.
Dearest, let me hear from you again soon, and in the old kind
vein. Ever yours,
Harry
Hilton
Dear Frank,—No letter again! You are
really growing intolerably negligent, and I shall begin to think that you are
getting tired of me, and that some new attraction is in the field. Knowing how
anxious I am respecting your health and welfare, I am sure you will give me the
credit of not writing from idle jealousy, although really I feel grieved and
anxious at your unusual neglect.
I have no news
just at present—indeed, I am too much out of spirits to write at any great
length. Pray hasten to remove all doubt from the mind of one whose thoughts,
day and night, are upon you only.
Your
affectionate
Fanny
To Miss Lucy Hartman,
No. — St. Luke’s Place, Oct.
3d, 18—. My Dear Lucy,—It
is with pain I write to you in aught that can seem like a strain of reproach,
but I confess that your conduct last night both
surprised and vexed me. Your marked approbation of the attentions paid to you
by Mr. Walters was as obvious as your neglect of myself. Believe me, I am in no
way given to idle jealousy—still less am I selfish or unmanly enough to wish to
deprive any lady on whom I have so firmly fixed my affections, of any pleasure
to be obtained in good society. But my peace of mind would be lost forever, did
I believe that I have lost one atom of your affection.
Pray write, and assure me that you still preserve your undivided
affection for
Your devoted but grieved
Arthur
To Miss Catherine Morton,
Arch St., Philadelphia, Oct. 22st, 18—. My Dearest Kate,—How grieved
am I that you should think me capable of wavering in my affection toward you,
and inflicting a slight upon one, in whom my whole hopes of happiness are
centered! Believe me, my attentions to Miss Hamilton were never intended for
anything more than common courtesy. My long acquaintance with her father, and
my knowledge of her amiable character—as well as the circumstance of her being
a comparative stranger to the Howards,—such were my sole reasons for paying
more attention to her than I might otherwise have done.
Pray rest confident in the belief that my affection for you is
as unchanging as my regret is great that I should ever have given you cause to
doubt it, and believe me, Dearest Kate,
It’s been a year since I’ve posted on my blog! Elizabeth Bisland, the author of “The Art of Travel” found in The Woman’s Book, might characterize me as an “indolent” blogger.
Lately,I’ve had an itch to go exploring on Google Books and find something new to freshen up ye olde blog. While looking up information on caring for invalids last night, I stumbled upon this interesting travel information by Bisland. When I returned to the book this morning, I noticed that one of the chapters had been written by Thomas Wentworth Higginson, the famed scholar and abolitionist as well as the dear friend and editor of Emily Dickinson! I wondered if the other authors in the book were such luminaries, so I googled Elizabeth Bisland and, whoa, what a fascinating woman!
Bisland was a writer and Nellie Bly’s competitor in the famous Journey Around The World in 1889, a race to beat Jules Verne’s fictional 80-day jaunt around the globe. Ultimately, Bly defeated Bisland, making the journey in 72 days, while Bisland came in at 76. Bummer. Luckily for us, Bisland imparted her traveling wisdom in her chapter in The Woman’s Book.
You can find more of her writings and books including In Seven Stages: A Flying Trip Around the World at Online Books.
I hope you enjoy this fabulous information.
My own opinion and experience is that a woman can travel comfortably to any distance, into any climate, with one trunk, a dressing bag, and a shawl strap. Very recently a great advancement has been made in the matter of trucks and already one begins to look back on one’s contentment with the bungling or boxes full of trays as a piece of quite phenomenal ignorance.
This new box has a hinged top, which, being lifted, exposes a series of drawers both large and small, so that instead of struggling with refractory trays and breaking one’s back in search of some object that has, in a spirit of pure wantonness, descended into the depths at the instant when most needed, one whips out the shallow drawers and in a twinkling can pounce upon the most elusive and wily of one’s possessions. The newest dressing-bag also is a great improvement over any previous efforts in this line; the fittings being wrought of weightless celluloid, made in an excellent imitation of tortoiseshell or amber, replacing the heavy glass and silver which made a dressing-case a burden to be avoided at any cost. Now that the objection of weight is removed, the dressing-bag, with its compact toilet appliances, is quite indispensable to comfort and travel. It should contain hair-brush and comb, clothes-brush, nail-brush, and toothbrush, soap-case, cologne-bottle, hairpin case, scissors, button-hook, penknife, portfolio, and traveling inkstand. To these should be added one of the small morocco sewing-cases to be found at the dry goods shops, with thimble, needles, glove and shoe buttons, sewing-silk, thread, and tapes, as well as a few hooks and eyes. A pincushion filled with safety-pins, hatpins, and dressing-pins, black and white, added to a sponge-bag, complete the list and prepare one to meet any emergency with calmness. These dressing-cases are somewhat more costly than the ordinary bag, but they are usually of good material and therefore wear well, and the saving in time, and the comfort of knowing one’s belongings are tidy and ready to hand, is worth the extra cost ten times over. Heretofore, because of being obliged to carry all one’s own hand-luggage in this country, the dressing-case has not been popular with us ; but this difficulty of weight removed, no wise or skilled traveler will be without so great an addition to her convenience.
A medium-sized bag, convenient for
a woman’s handling, will have space as well for a night-dress, a pair of soft, heel less dressing slippers, and a light
dressing gown—China silk in summer time,
or soft wool for winter. A gray Chudda shawl of large size can be cut into such
a dressing gown, and is so soft and
compressible that it occupies but little space.
The shawl-strap should contain an
ulster, traveling-rug, overshoes, and
umbrella. Another matter to be considered in preparing for comfort in travel is
the possession of a definite place for everything, so that everything may be
found in its place the instant it is wanted. Therefore cases for handkerchiefs,
gloves, and veils, bags for shoes and for soiled linen, should all be provided,
and every article being carefully laid away in its proper receptacle after
using, not only insures against losses that
cannot be repaired at critical moments, and frantic searches for strayed belongings, but keeps one’s boxes and clothes
dainty and fresh.
By natural sequence the next point to be considered is that of toilets. There
is no need, in addressing American women, to inveigh against frowsy unkemptness
in traveling—their tendency as a rule is toward ” over-smartness
;” but where a question of the quantity and weight of luggage is to be
dealt with, it may be worth while to plan how an immaculate appearance and
comfort are to be maintained out of trunks of small compass.
The many women who wear silk or wool tricot undergarments find them easily carried in small compass. Those who do not like this form of dress will discover that for long journeys there is nothing so satisfactory for underwear as silk. The original cost is rather large, but it proves an economy in the end, as clothes of the soft India (not China) silk are so easily laundered— requiring no starch — shed, instead of gathering, dust; do not conduct changes of temperature; and, keeping the body at an even temperature, are the greatest safeguards against colds. Nothing can be a greater luxury, in sickness, or after a hot day in the cars, than to slip for the night into a silky garment which neither heats nor chills the skin, nor retains the dust and wrinkles of a previous wearing, as would cambric or linen.
The ideal traveling down is
undoubtedly a very plain tailor skirt and coat of some neutral-tinted serge or
tweed, with a silk bodice, is it can stand the stress of weather, sea-damps,
and railway dust, is easy of fit, and can
be adapted to the tropics by removing
the coat, or adjusted to the Arctic zone by the addition of furs. A simple and
satisfactory adjunct is a black silk dress with two bodices—one adopted for evening. The best form of this convenience, if
intended for hard usage, is a bengaline
silk, which does not crumble, and, like Mrs. Primrose wedding gown, has stamina
enough to carry it over into another generation. With a pièce de résistance of this sort, a few of the prettiest accessories
of ribbon, velvet, and lace that the shops furnish ready-made, will supply all
the variety of costume needed and travel.
Most of the traveling done
within our borders is, of necessity, on the railway, and despite our
persistence of self-glorification in this
very matter, we have— in many things— much to learn from Europe. The
continental wagonslits, and the English sleeping cars are in several
respects improvements upon our own. For one thing
they avoid that promiscuously which is so greatly
shocks the foreigner traveling in
America.
In Germany one may secure a
first-class carriage for one’s self at an expense no greater than that of a
whole section in a sleeping-car, and attached to this is a private dressing room with all conveniences. Here one
is as secluded as in one’s own bedroom, and instead of futile wrestlings in the
curtained pigeon-hole provided in American cars, one dresses and undresses at one’s ease, with plenty of space and no
possibility of intrusion. All the through-trains leaving Paris for
Constantinople, Vienna, Berlin, Rome, and Nice are provided with wagons-lits,
cars which have a narrow passage-way upon one side, upon which opens a
series of small bedrooms, securing the privacy for many that American cars only
offer to the one party rich enough or lucky enough to secure the single ”
state-room ” at the end of the sleeper.
While few of the Continental trains
have a dining-car attached, those without one are provided with a small kitchen
at the end of the wagon-lit, where the guard concocts pleasant little
meals, largely made of fruit, salads, cheese, and good crusty loaves, and
serves them in each room upon movable tables.
The trains de luxe between
Calais and Paris, between London and Dover, and London and Edinburgh, have
beautiful dining arrangements, and the saloon carriages are spacious and
luxurious beyond any comparison with the best we have to offer. Another point
deserving mention in the European trains is the studied simplicity of the
decorations. Smooth, handsome blue broadcloth takes the place of stuffy plush,
and the tempest of gilded ornamentations is conspicuous by its delightful
absence.
In making long trips in England or
on the Continent it is as well that the woman traveling
alone should go to the expense of taking first-class tickets to secure the
advantages of the added luxury and privacy; but for all journeys of moderate
length—and very few are as long as twelve hours—second class is quite good
enough and a great deal cheaper. For journeys of an hour or two many English
people go third class, since the carriages in this class are perfectly clean
and fairly comfortable, and one is not likely to suffer any inconvenience from
the manners of one’s fellow-travelers, which are almost without exception quiet
and decent. On the Continent a woman
unaccompanied had better content herself with the economy of second class, as her experiences might not be
agreeable in the third.
Wherever one may be fated to spend
any length of time in land travel it is best to follow certain rules. One
of these is to be sure of plenty of fresh air. In our own country this is sometimes made difficult by the
over-heating of cars, the double windows, and the lack of proper ventilation;
while in Europe the loosely fitting sashes and lack of artificial warmth gives
one at times too much of even that good thing. An excellent practice is to get
out wherever a stop of more than a few minutes is made and walk briskly,
filling the lungs and stirring the blood. In almost all cases where a traveler finds herself unable to sleep in the
cars the difficulty maybe corrected by a
supply of fresh air.
A good plan is to undress entirely, as at home, slipping over the nightgown the loose silk or wool dressing gown, that’s protecting one’s self against danger of colds, and being prepared in case of accident. Have the berth made up with the pillow at the end toward the front of the car, and no matter how cold the weather, open the window next to feet a little to the outer air —a pencil or fold a newspaper will admit enough—covering the body, and particularly the feet, very warmly. In this way the air enters at the lower end of the bed only and circulates freely without making a draught. The result of all which is that one’s body become quite free from compression of clothes, and the lungs fed with adequate oxygen, one wakes in the morning fresh and vigorous after heathfulsleep, and is prepared for the new day’s trials or pleasures. A woman who makes a five days’ journey in a sleeping car without fatigue or discomfort thus describes her plan for her toilet. She says: “One of the causes of so much wretchedness in trouble is lack of a morning bath, and that, too, when one particularly needs it— all dusty and stuffy from railway grime! My method is this: Before going to bed I look around the car. If there are only a few women, I lie in bed late and let them quite finish with the dressing room so that when I do get up I may have it to myself. If there are many, I could up a full hour earlier than any of them are likely to rise–even five o’clock is better than an uncomfortable or hurried toilet, which sets me wrong for the whole day. I slip my skirt and coat over my dressing gown, knot a lace scarf I always carry over my unbrushed head, make a neat parcel of my other clothes, with these and my bag I seek the toilet room. Here I lock myself in, give my hair a good brushing to rid of cinders, fill the basin and add some cologne to the water, and by means of hanging everything out of the way, a towel spread on the floor, and a sponge, managed to achieve a bath from head to foot. Then I dress quietly and completely to the last pin, and am so refreshed and comforted that I am ready for anything that may happen. I can do it all in half an hour, too, but dint of having everything in my hand, and putting each thing where it belongs the moment I have finished using it so that there has to be no general packing up at the end. But I won’t be hurried, and it throws me into spasms of nervous rage if impatient women come and bang on the door while I am within–which is why I either rise really are lie late, in order to combine a toilet and peace of mind.”
There are now but few parts
of this country in which every convenience is not supplied by the public
conveyances. Some of the remote or parts of Florida, where journeys must be
made by boat, drive want to good humor and philosophy as one’s only resource; and to Mexico one must go provided with many of the comforts ordinarily
supplied in the United States. One of these comforts is a portable bath-tub, since hotels in the obscure parts do
not afford toilet appliances.
Of late years the travel to
Alaska has grown to such an extent that the tourist may look for perfect comfort by train and steamer, since were ever the demand for convenience is great supply
meets it.
To take, for instance, what is
called “The Square Tour” — which unfortunately is less frequently
made by Americans than by visiting foreigners —will prove the universal comfort
of travel in this country, and the possibility of being absent for months with
the limited luggage specified. Leaving New York on the Florida train the first
of March, it is possible to see—with a stop-over ticket—all the towns of
importance along the Southern Atlantic coast within a week, and in all will be
found good hotels, and the climate will vary so little that the removal or
addition of a coat will be all that is required. Florida is dotted with
admirable hostelries with an easy journeys
of one another, and every point of interest
is reached by fairly comfortable means. Here one will be obliged to add
the coat mornings and evenings while near the sea-coast, but will perfectly
abandon it while in land or by the waters
of the Gulf.
New Orleans may be reached by rail,
but a charming route is across the Gulf by steamer, and up through the mouth of
the Mississippi. Here one takes the Southern Pacific to California, seeing
Texas en passant, and slowly climbs the Western coast by local lines,
seeing the beautiful fruit ranches of the South, Los Angeles, Sacramento, San
Francisco, Puget Sound, and finally takes the steamer to Alaska, reaching there
about June 1st. Returning, a landing is made at Victoria, and thence by
Canadian Pacific through the wildest and most beautiful railway route in the
world to Montreal. From there more railroading brings one to the Lakes, to
Chicago, to Buffalo, Niagara Falls, and New York by July1st. By this process there has been no exposure either to
extreme heat or cold, nor any rough methods of travel in a journey of four
months, that gives one a most comprehensive knowledge of the North American
continent.
The green spectre of sea-sickness looms up for most
women at the very mention of “the oceans of say” to be faced when they venture
off of their own continent and the whole art of travelling by water is, for
eight out of ten, simply a question of evading or assuaging those insufferable
pangs. Long and severe experience has proved to most sufferers that the advice
to struggle against those painful and surging emotions is but the brutal egoism
and lack of sympathy of those who know not such sufferings because of their own
internal arrangements being set on an even keel, There is on earth perhaps no
anguish so bitter, and none which meets with so little true tenderness and
comprehension as sea sickness. To escape without ribald mockery is more than
most can hope It is useless to suggest a remedy for the cure of one is the
doubled agony of another, and only precautions and palliations are worth
suggesting, since the cure for sea sickness is like salvation each must find it
for himself.
One important precaution is to see that the system
is clear and the liver active, at least a week before sailing. Then, if it be
possible a voyage should not be begun in a state of nervous fatigue. Perhaps
the most important advice is to go to bed at once before, the “jobbling of the
ocean” awakes a single qualm. Arrange all one’s be longings snugly and handily. Undress completely and
get into bed with a book near by in case of ennui and some clean faint flavored
toilet water ready for use. It is better not to read but to go to sleep at once
generally an easy task after the fatigues of preparation and farewell. With no
compression of garments stretched at full length with the body warm and as much
fresh air as is attainable it is just possible one may escape the tendency to
nausea which once set up is so hard to conquer. For the first twenty-four hours
all soups and hot drinks, wines, lemonades, and the like, should be avoided;
the diet being confined to cold, dry meats, and dry biscuits. By strict
observance of these rules I myself, who have descended all the seven rounds of
the hell of seasickness, am enabled to make a voyage with only moderate
discomfort and even to enjoy life by the third or fourth day. Should the
sorrows of the sea overtake one in spite of all precautions cracked ice and
bromides are the most simple and effective palliatives. A cold salt bath is an
excellent aid to recovery when the worst of the nausea has passed and the
interval of excessive languor and depression supervenes. It requires courage to
undertake it, but the result is worth the effort–the best way being to step
into a warm bath and sponge freely with cold water as it runs from the cock.
This shortens by many hours that period of reaction which is almost as painful
as the more active illness.
These remedies or necessary only
upon such wicked seas as are to be found in the North Atlantic and Pacific, or
in the stormy channels surrounding England. The beautiful tropical waters about
the East and West Indies are–in the winter at least, when travelers for
pleasure make their acquaintance–smooth lakes without even the long heave and
pulse of our summer seas. The Peninsular and Oriental steamships, from the moment they enter the Suez Canal until they
finish their voyage Hong Kong, a whole month later, might carry a glass full of
water without even spilling a drop. Consequently, for one of the Eastern
journeys, which are every day becoming more popular, the preparations are quite
dissimilar from those undertaking for a trip to Europe. As there is no steerage
travel to the East, the whole vessel vessel is given up to the comfort of the
first-cabin passengers. Decks are wide and steady enough for very agreeable
moonlit dances and strolls. Little afternoon tea-tables make their appearance
among the clusters of Bombay lounging-chairs, where young women in muslins and
straw hats pour tea for young men in white duck, with silk sashes replacing
their waistcoats. The saloons are adorned with growing palms, and occasionally
a blooming orchid plant or two hang among the canaries’ cages. The state-rooms
are large, comfortable bed chambers, with iron bedsteads, and a long divan on
the seaside, where a great section of the ship opens outward, forming and
awning from the sun but letting in all the coolness of the sea. The bathrooms
are spacious, and the great marble tubs, filled with cold salt water, offer the
most irresistible temptation in the hot atmosphere.
At half-past six in the morning a
white-capped maid comes with tea or coffee, a biscuit and fruit. It may be
against all one’s good American habits to eat at that hour and in bed, but a
little further knowledge will prove here, as elsewhere, it is best to follow
the example of those who have had long knowledge of the needs of a climate. If
one refuses to adapt one’s self to this custom, and insists upon doing in Rome
as the Americans do, the result will be a feeling of great exhaustion after
dressing that robs one of appetite for breakfast and spoils the day. In the
tropics less nourishment is needed than in temperate zones, but it must be
taken at much more frequent intervals; and after the heavy relaxed sleep of
those moist, warm nights, the body requires the stimulus of food before
undertaking any exertion. The same advice applies to the afternoon siesta. One
may have had a most vigorous scorn of the indolence implied by sleep in the
daytime, yet between three and four o’clock an almost irresistible drowsiness
will overtake one, and the wise voyager succumbs to Nature’s hint of her needs.
It cannot be too much urged upon
the traveler by land or by water, in temperate or tropic zone, that there
should be no chance for exercise neglected. The change of air induces, as a
rule, a more vigorous appetite, and the enforced sluggishness of long days on
board vessel and car makes it difficult for the digestion to cope with its
added task, the result being disorders which are apt to rob one of all pleasure
and predispose one to colds and infection.
These
suggestions apply to the case of the woman journeying under the escort of what
is known as her natural protector, and treat principally of her physical
comfort and well – being; but for the woman who sets forth into the world alone
there are many matters still to be considered.
To
the indolent, the timid, and the inexperienced among women there is something
extremely terrifying in the thought of lonely wanderings, unaccompanied by some
man to save trouble and bear the blame of mishaps; but there is, in reality,
nothing to prevent a woman from seeing every civilized, and even
semi-civilized, country in the world without other protection than her own
modesty and good sense. There is a vast amount of chivalry and tenderness
distributed in the hearts of men, and while the woman who goes guarded may be
quite unaware of it, because nothing in her case calls it forth, the chivalry
is there, and ready for almost unlimited draughts upon its patience, devotion,
and sympathy. In all accidents by land or water the first thought of those in
authority is the safety of the women, and while all yet goes smoothly the very
defencelessness of a lonely woman appears to put every man upon his honor, and
make him feel, in a certain sense, responsible for her comfort and enjoyment.
That women travelling alone have at times painful experiences cannot be denied,
but I boldly assert that in nine cases out of ten it is due wholly and solely
to their own fault. A few have been so warned against the wiles of a wicked
world that they are unable to discriminate between an honest desire to be of
use and mere vulgar effrontery, and reward courteous attentions with suspicious
rudeness. A still greater number look upon their own needs and discomforts as
matters of cosmical importance, before which the affairs of the
universe—notably the affairs of the masculine half—should give way; and their
petulance, peevishness, and aggressive assumptions drive even the meekest of
their fellow-travelers into open revolt. Still another cause of difficulty is
an embarrassed timidity in cases where instant repression is needed; and a lack
of courageous dignity in the face of insolence.
The
woman who is cool – headed, courteous, and self-reliant, can travel around the
world in every direction and find no word or look to daunt or distress her.
Indeed if her manners be sweetly gracious and dignified she will find all lands
full of brave cavaliers who will spring to gratify her smallest request, who
will see and meet her needs before they are put into words, and who cheerfully will imperil and even yield up their
lives in her defence and to insure her safety.
The garment of modest purity is as magic a
defence to-day as when Una wore it, and the sight of a good woman who needs
their aid wakens in even bad men some part of the spirit of a Bayard. The woman
who knows how to accept a favor frankly and without tiresome protest, and is at
the same time gratefully aware that the service is a favor and not a duty,
makes every travelling man her faithful servitor.
A cool and nimble wit is
generally the best defence against vulgar aggression and achieves its end more
neatly than would angry protest.
A very young girl was once making a long
railway journey alone, and to amuse her solitude dabbled a little in an attempt
at literature. She was aware that a man
in the opposite section of the sleeping-car was endeavoring to attract her
attention, but she kept her head bent over her manuscript and gave no sign of
being aware of his existence. Finally, all his efforts failing, he crossed the
aisle between them and laid his visiting card on the adjustable table before
her.
“That’s my name, miss,” he said,
and added with insinuating familiarity, “I guess we’re two of a kind.”
The girl regarded the card distantly and
raising her eyes to his face coolly, contemplated it during several minutes of
silence.
”Really!” she replied at last, “you flatter me.
In what respect may I hope to resemble you?”
“Oh,” stammered the small cad, getting red and
embarrassed beneath her calm gaze, “you seem to be a writer and I am one myself;
I’m a reporter. Guess we’re a pair of Bohemians, ain’t we?”
“You
mean that?” she answered politely, glancing at the thirty
or forty pages of manuscript she had covered. “I fear it has misled you.
That is a letter to my husband. Good morning!” And she quietly dotted an
i, and went on with her work. The car heard her and understood, and the car
smiled satirically at the unmatched Bohemian, who sneaked away to the smoker
and was seen no more by daylight in his seat.
Impertinence
is not the only matter with which the solitary woman must deal; she must be
alert, accurate, and quick-witted, and while she is sure to find assistance she
must act as if she did not count upon it, and take all possible precautions for
herself.
It is well to secure one’s seats,
sleeping-berth, or state-room well in advance, and trust nothing to luck.
Beginning early and having, therefore, the power of choice, select, if
possible, for a day’s journey, seats in the centre of the car, or if for the
night, a berth near the ladies’ toilet-room. Take an outside state-room; the
air to be had through the port-hole, whenever the sea is calm enough to admit
of opening it, is worth much in moments of fatigue or nausea.
Take enough hand – luggage to be
quite comfortable. Someone can always be found to carry it for a very small
tip. Do not sit down and wait to be told when things happen and where all
conveniences are situated. A few judicious inquiries will ascertain the hours
of meals, the locality of the bath-room, what rules and regulations must be
observed, and what privileges are to be had. Be ready to take prompt advantage
of any opportunity for amusement, and be profoundly versed in the gentle science
of Baedeker and Murray.
Perhaps this is a point at which
the whole question of tips might be appropriately dealt with. All through
Europe they are expected, but a regular tariff is fixed, and it is not
necessary to give more than is the custom. Some few independent souls refuse to
recognize the demand at all, but they are always badly served. In very many
cases those who serve them are not liberally paid by their employers because of
the extra fund supposed to be contributed by the traveller, and she who refuses
to tip is in reality receiving services gratuitously from the poor employee. On
long sea-voyages it is customary to give one’s own stewardess five dollars when
special services are asked, or two and a half dollars when no particular demands
are made on her time. About the same is given the table steward, and one dollar
to the deck steward— but this proportion may alter according to the amount of
service rendered. It is a wise precaution and insures more care and
consideration if the tipper gives the stewardess a small installment of the
whole fee during the first day out, intimating that more is to follow on
reaching port.
In England the cabmen expect a
gratuity of two pence, in France two big sous. Six pence are ample for the
transportation of luggage or any small services from the guard on railway
trains in England; half a franc in France. In the expensive restaurants a
shilling in London and a franc in Paris is sufficiently munificent, while in
such places as the Maison Duval, or the A. B. C. restaurants, two sous, or two
pence, are quite enough.
There are, for the solitary woman
traveler, a number of tourists’ agencies —such as Cook’s, Gaze’s, and Low’s,—,
whose branches reach to over beyond Jordan, and are established among even the
dwellers in Mesopotamia. These for a very small percentage will buy tickets,
check and transfer luggage, furnish all useful and useless information, and do
one’s banking, besides supplying valuable aid in finding satisfactory lodgings.
It is at the offices of these
agencies that one may change bank-notes most conveniently and secure fresh
currency of the different countries in which one is sojourning. In carrying
large sums it is better to rely upon the letter of credit on some prominent and
trustworthy bank ; but where the sum to be used in travelling is moderate, as
convenient a way as any is to carry a few Bank of England notes, and deposit
these as an account at one of the tourist agencies, or at a bank, and draw
checks against it. Say that one means to go abroad for two months or three, and
means to limit one’s expenses to a few modest hundreds; then the simplest and
least troublesome fashion of arranging the matter is to procure Bank of England
notes for that sum. Get a letter from a trustworthy tourist agency to its
office in London or Paris containing an introduction. On arriving one has only
to present the letter and the money, deposit the latter, and get a sheaf of
checks in return, and. a needed supply of foreign gold and silver. In moving
from one large city to another, it is necessary only to carry a letter from the
agency to its bureau in the new capital, and there, the office having been
privately notified of the original deposit, the checks are again honored. For
short tours from the base of supply a small amount of gold is the most
convenient form of provision.
It is well that the woman
travelling alone should always deposit her valuables in the safe of the hotel,
being sure to take a receipt for them. In the daytime, and while on the cars at
night, a soft silk bag about the neck is the best receptacle for large sums. It
is now so easy to change one’s money, and so many conveniences are provided for
travellers in this respect that it requires but little effort to obtain the
current coin of the realm where one may happen to be, and in all countries
English gold and bank-notes are honored, as they evidently stand high in the
estimation of the whole world.
There is much diversity of
opinion and experience in the matter of guides and couriers, but a good rule
seems to be that in countries where one understands the language they are
unnecessary, while in localities where the language is absolutely unknown, what
is apt to miss many pleasures for lack of an interpreter. In England, France,
Germany, Italy, and Spain, the routes are so well-known and so constantly
traveled, that an energetic, enterprising traveler can’t see all that is to be
seen without aid; but in Norway and Sweden, Russia, Holland, and turkey, in
Egypt, and in Japan, where the languages are so difficult that even the few
phrases needed by the traveler are more troublesome to acquire then the result
is worth, a guide and an interpreter or quite necessary. In India English is so
generally spoken that an American woman does not find herself at a
disadvantage.
It is the gentleman who sits
at the receipt of custom who fills with vague alarm many a gentle female soul,
but experience usually robs him of all terrors. Strangely enough, England,
which is supposedly free from any protective measures, is
a most troublesome port to enter. Brandy, cologne, silver plate, tobacco, and
the Tauchnitz novels are not permitted to enter the tight little island, and it
is generally some well-behaved, eminently conventional matron who is most
sharply questioned as to the presence of tobacco and brandy in her trunks, and
has her stockings, underlinen, and bonnets tossed madly about in the search for
contraband means of dissipation. On the Continent more discrimination is shown,
and for the most part the officers of the douane discern at a glance
whether one is likely to have diamonds concealed in one’s boot-heels, or owes
the rich contours of one’s figure to tightly rolled consignments of lace. The
slightest reluctance to have one’s belongings searched, however, at once
arouses suspicion, and only the cheerful and prompt handing over of keys
achieves the much-to-be-desired mere lifting and closing of the lid. My own
experience leads me to believe that the most courteous and kindly of customs
officials are those in the port of New York—and that even under the McKinley
tariff regulations; but memory preserves in the amber of gratitude one
gentle-hearted Gaul, who, looking into the weary eyes of a lonely woman newly
arrived in Paris at eight o’clock in the evening, was moved to real compassion
and chalked with his mystic sign four large boxes without word or question.
Here we have the lonely female well
on her journey’s way at last. She having read, marked, learned, and inwardly
digested the luminous wisdom, and didactic advice of the foregoing lines, has
travelled by land and sea in great comfort, luxury, and safety, and now—
triumphantly vindicating the innocence of her luggage from accusations of
brandy and chewing tobacco—stands inside the customs barrier of a foreign land.
For the sake of extreme probability we shall call this port Liverpool.
It is explained to her at the
railway station how a merciful English company has attached, for the
convenience of desperately homesick Yankees, a Pullman car to the train, and
that, finding themselves only recovered from mal de mer to fall victims
to mal du pays —passing from naupathia to nostalgia —these expatriated
Americans welcome this token of home with tears of joy. She may have a place
there—if she wishes.
No, indeed! Had she been so
irresistibly enamoured of things at home she would have stayed there. She has come
away for change, and means to see life entirely from a foreign point of view.
She will go first class in one of the little English carriages, though she knows
that “only dukes, fools, and Americans go first class.“ This is a small single
luxury she is treating herself to.
“Here’s half a crown, guard, and I
hope I sha’t be disturbed. And please wireto Lincoln that I want a hot
luncheon, with a wine.”
“Yes, mem. Thanky, mem. It shall be
attended to.” he locks the door, and the wiley woman is alone and a large clean
blue boudoir, with perfect privacy and plenty of space. No one can enter and no
one can see the bit of toilet she sets about making. The steamer arrived early,
and she has been Worrying about on the wind docks since breakfast. She removes
her hat, recoifs her hair, and sponges her face with cologne. Doubling up the
arms that divide the long divan into chairs, be heaps for rugs into a semblance
of sofa cushions by the window and reclines at length, with her book, the
lovely English scenery, and an occasional nap to help her through the hours.
Here is Lincoln. A man comes to the carriage-window and hands in a little
luncheon hamper, for which he is paid another half crown. The train slides out
of the station and the traveler leisurely prepares for her meal. The little
hamper contains a half pint of table claret with a cork half drawn a hot
English chop with and potatoes and some green vegetables, a salad, a piece of
cheese, bread and fruit, besides a knife, fork, glass, napkin, pepper, and
salt. She eats at her ease, and when done closes all the remains into the
basket and slips it under the seat. It is no further concern of hers. The
company has its agents to attend to the matter of returned empties.
“It may be soothing to one’s
homesickness to come to London in a Pullman,” she says to herself,
“but it certainly is not so comfortable nor so novel.”
Arrived at Charing Cross she waits
to see her trunks come out of the luggage-van. All the heavier pieces are left
in the luggage office to be called for, and the things very necessary for the
moment are heaped on the roof of a hansom. She is too wise to go to one of the
great caravansaries affected by the average travelling American. The huge
hotels are costly everywhere, and she drives to Trafalgar Square to see the
tourists’ agent, bank her letter of credit, and get the address of some of the
smaller hotels. They can recommend some dignified hostelries of the simpler
sort near to Piccadilly, or if she wishes to be very economical there are
pleasant small hotels on the Embankment, close to Charing Cross, where she may
have bed, breakfast, and bath for six shillings and make her other meals cost
what she chooses.
She decides upon the latter, since she means only to spend the
night there, and finds it clean, simple, and very comfortable. Once installed
she immediately sets off for Bond Street, to shop, to put herself in touch with
all the delicious novelty of a foreign world, and to drink a cup of tea in one
of the small tea-shops. To-morrow, armed with a list of advertisements cut from
The Times, she sets out early to look for lodgings, and wanders South
Kensingtonwards in her search. In a tiny street opening upon a garden square
full of trees and flowers she comes upon the very thing she needs– a bright,
fresh, little drawing room, hung and upholstered chintz, and equally pleasant
dining room, a bedroom fitted with brass bedstead and every appointment for
comfort, and a tidy, well arranged bath. This is to be had at four pounds a
week, including lights and all attendance. She could have found cheaper
accommodations if she had been content with merely sitting room and bedroom,
but meaning to present letters of introduction she wishes to have agreeable
quarters in which to receive. She is careful to make an exact bargain with her
shrewd landlady, who would add in, if she were not checked, all the endless
“extras” over which the Briton so loves to potter and over which the American
grows so impatient.
“There’s the light over the hall-door, a shilling a week; and
the kitchen fire, half a crown; and there’s six shillings for coal and three
for lights and ten shillings for attendance, and six pence for the use of the
cruets, and tuppence for–” “I’ll give you four pounds a week for everything
included,” interposes the lodger, having made a rapid calculation and deducted
a small amount from the total. There is a little more haggling and then the
bargain is struck. The lodging house keeper’s husband is a retired butler, who
will serve the lodger in the same capacity; she will cook, and her trig little
niece act as housemaid. So the lodger finds herself mistress of a pretty little
house, with butler, cook., and housemaid, all for the sum of twenty dollars a
week. Her meals she orders every morning, and with a little care and simple
living they should come to mot much more than another ten dollars.
Behold her installed and her letters presented. She is a wise
woman, this traveler. She realizes that people in a great capital are always
very much occupied and not particularly anxious to add more acquaintances to
their list; that they are likely to think it a bore to have to hunt her up, and
she does not expect too much. A hasty card is dropped at the door, a line is
scribbled perhaps asking her to come in to afternoon tea. The traveler goes
meekly, and makes herself agreeable. Will not the Englishwoman fix a day to
come and have tea with her?
Meantime this wise woman has, for
what seems to her an infinitesimal sum, had boxes affixed to her windows
overflowing with lovely blossoms, and has palms and ferns and blooming plants
scattered about the apartment. All her small belongings and pretty purchases
are gracefully disposed, and a warm welcome awaits the visitor. She is careful
to avoid complaining of any inconveniences she may suffer, and when she cannot
warmly praise English things and methods has the discretion to keep silence.
Without intrusion or apparent intention she offers small pleasures and
courtesies herself, without waiting to have them come first to her. One person
whom she has obliged takes her to drive in the Park. Another asks her to
luncheon; she repays each civility promptly by some equal courtesy, and before
many weeks are passed she is full of charming engagements and is booked for
some country-house visiting later — which is the reward of common-sense and
good-nature.
In almost every part of the British
Isles she finds this lodging-house system the best and cheapest method of
living, and she has discretion enough in each country to find out the most
characteristic feature of the life there and adopt it, and to do in Rome as
Romans do—up to a certain point.
Should the traveller in England be
desirous of still further economy—as many are — it is extremely easy to achieve
it. Those who have gone abroad for study, and many who merely go for
relaxation, must, to achieve their purpose, count rigidly every penny. For
these there are in London, Paris, Berlin, Rome—all the great capitals—furnished
chambers for rent at sums varying from two dollars to ten dollars a week,
according to accommodations, and meals may be had at most reasonable rates in
these foreign towns if one knows where to look for them. London is full of such
aids to the light purse. The pastry-cooks’ shops are the refuge of the
economical; the A. B. C. (under which abbreviation the restaurants of the
Aerated Bread Company are known), the British TeaTable, the Alliance, the
Express, Pearce’s, Lockhart’s, all furnish food at the most moderate rates, and
are clean and comfortable. The woman who is a frequenter of the British
Museum—that infinite treasure-house of knowledge—will also be familiar with the
well-known restaurant provided for the army of daily students there, and will
know how to feed herself comfortably at small cost while pursuing her studies.
She can reckon her living by pennies rather than by quarters. If she is content
with a European breakfast, a cup of coffee, an egg, and buttered rolls will
cost her at any one of these places about eight pence—or sixteen cents. A
luncheon of bouillon, a meat patty, bread and butter, and jam will cost her
eight pence again, and she can dine comfortably for a shilling— her whole day’s
nourishment not costing her more than sixty cents a day, or in round terms
about four dollars and a half a week. In the country towns of England, such as
Oxford, Leamington, and the like, one can find, with a little effort, good
clean lodgings with board for a little over two pounds a week. These things are
not attainable by the mere bird of passage. The rolling stone not only does not
gather moss, but loses it in its swift career; but in small European countries
it is far wiser to study the map and pick out a town lying centrally to many
places of interest, take up one’s lodging there, and circle about in pursuit of
sightseeing. It is far cheaper and more comfortable, more satisfactory in every
way; though not until it has been tried, does the American realize how close
all the visitable places lie together in those small kingdoms. In this way,
too, an interesting district can be fully studied, and no guide-book can ever
reveal all the points of real attraction as will personal investigation. Take
Oxford as an example. Within an hour of that town there are—outside of its own
inexhaustible attractions—a sufficient number of artistic and historic
pilgrimages to occupy many weeks of steady sight-seeing. No more perfect
illustration of the point I wish to make can be found than in a conversation
overheard in an Oxford hotel. “Why, girls!” said an American traveler
looking up from her guide-book, “just listen at this book !—it says you
couldn’t see all there is to see in this town if you was to stay a month—well,
I guess there ain’t no use of our staying, then. We’ll take that 2.40 train to
Warwick—” and she did.
In England an American woman is
permitted a thousand liberties that are denied to the natives. “That’s
American, you know,” covers a multitude of infringements of the code, and
almost the same feeling exists in France and Germany. They are not very clear
as to just what is “American, you know,” and what is not, but they
are convinced that it allows the transatlantic visitor a vast deal of liberty,
and they rather resent than not too much conventionality and propriety of
demeanor. One kindly hostess offered cigars to an American woman lunching with
her.
“Oh, but do take one !”
she cried. “Of course we are all very liberal about such things, and
though we don’t smoke ourselves we know you are from the South, and that all
South American ladies do. We should really enjoy seeing you smoke it “—and
was rather hurt than otherwise at her guest’s continued refusal.
Another hostess took an American
woman aside just before dinner and said, apologetically: “There is claret,
and sherry, and champagne for dinner. I hope you like some one of them; I asked
the butler, but he said he didn’t in the least know how to make a ‘mixed drink.'”
And to this day she does not quite understand why the guest was so convulsed
with amusement.
Now imagine the traveler
transferred to the Continent. She has struck her lodging-tent in London, and
has set up her gods in a hotel in Paris. For France is not familiar with the
lodgings system of accommodation. The pension flourishes in its stead,
almost as rankly as does its prototype, the boarding-house in America. But,
except in the need of extreme economy, it is not to be sought after, for it is
usually filled with Britons and Americans, and one gets none of the flavor of
the French life, which one is there to see; and the French folk who inhabit
pensions are, as a rule, not the sort one wishes to meet, and are rather to be
avoided. There are hundreds of pleasant, gay, clean apartment hotels where
accommodation can be had most reasonably. The traveller picks out a quiet
dwelling-place near the Rue Rivoli, and but a stone’s throw from the Place
Vendome and the Avenue de l’Opera. Here she climbs quite up to the top, but
since there is an ascenseur, what matter of that. She gets a tiny
bedroom and sitting-room which looks into a court, where there is a fountain
and flowers, and an elderly parrot, once the property of an opera singer, who
practises his piercing and raucous scales every forenoon with a fidelity
learned from his lately deceased master, and spends the rest of the time
administering profane, spiteful rebukes to a noisy small dog, his companion.
Still faithful to the fashions of
the country she may happen to inhabit for the moment, the traveler has brought
to her bedside, at eight o’clock, a pot of steaming tea or coffee, a plate of
crusty rolls, and a pat of butter. After café complet she rises, has her
bath (a source of unending surprise to the French servants, who cannot
understand the meaning of daily ablutions, and attribute it to a sort of
American madness), and lingers reading and writing until twelve, when she goes
to breakfast. If it be early spring, with some east still in the wind, the
traveler will doubtless seek the nearest Maison Duval, of which there
are fully a score distributed about the city. These restaurants are perfectly
clean, well served, and cheap, and they are one of the institutions of the
city. Unlucky is the economical visitor to Paris who misses them.
. . . A little marble table; a neat
woman in a black gown and crisp linen Normandy cap. She spreads a napkin,
brings a little basket full of rolls, and a pat of butter. Here is the list to
choose from: All sorts of omelettes and cheap dishes, perhaps the most
expensive is Chateaubriand, a tiny filet of beefsteak, which costs a
whole franc, and is very good. This traveller is economical and chooses an omelette
au jambon, full of chopped ham, and served deliciously hot. Next comes a
cream cheese, cool and sweet, and served with a spoonful of jellied white
currants. A cup of café noir, and now the bill. Omelette, ten cents;
cream cheese, ten cents; napkin, two cents; bread, two cents; butter, two
cents; two cents for the ” cover,” and a tip of two cents —two big
sous—is all that is expected by the smiling friendly woman in the Normandy
bonnet. Thirty cents for a breakfast well-cooked, pleasantly served, and eaten
at one’s leisure near a window looking out on all the inimitable, inexhaustible
charm of a Parisian street!
After breakfast is over behold this
well content female pacing placidly toward the Tuileries garden, to sit in the
sun and watch the fountains play, and the funny French school-children in black
baize aprons disport themselves among the statues—to read her newspaper or
book; perhaps to scribble a letter upon a writing pad on her knee. All the
treasures of the Louvre are at her left hand, all the charms of the Bois at
her right, to vie in offering pleasures for her afternoon!
It is plain to see what a sensible
woman this is—so she lingers till all the horse – chestnuts in the Champs-Élysées
are in bloom, like glorified Christmas-trees full of pink and white candles
— till the grass is green, the flowers out, and all the French world comes,
after its pleasant fashion, out-of-doors for its meals and amusements.
Ignoring the Maisons Duval now,
she goes to a Champs-Élysées cafe and sits on the gravel path under an
awning, and eats. The green grass and blossoming trees are about her; so are
the scarlet geraniums and pinks. A big fountain splashes near by. Here she ends
her meal with a bowl of wild strawberries over which is emptied a pot of Norman
clotted cream—and all this in the very heart of a great city, too.
Here as in London she inquires as
to possible excursions, and finds she can go every day for a month to some new
place of interest and be back by night. If she is tired with an afternoon’s
hard work in the picture galleries or museums, she goes to Columbin’s, in the
Rue Cambon, and has tea, and is amused to see the smart French folk come in to
do the same thing, and to meet unexpected American friends. She dines in her
own sitting-room at her hotel.
Twice a week she goes to the Marché
aux Fleurs, on the steps of the church of the Madeleine, and strolls along a lane of flowers. Here are valley-lilies, forget-me-nots, and
cornflowers which she has bought at home at great expense from the florist,
gathered by children from the fields and sold in big bunches for a few cents.
Here are plants of every description in pots, a tall rose covered with
unfolding buds for one franc fifty centimes; a blooming hydrangea for two
francs. She plunges into furious extravagance and goes all the length of a
dollar, and for the rest of the week her little sitting-room is a bower of
perfume. . . .
At the end of the week she sits down to reckon up
her spendings. Her rooms, lights, attendance, baths, dinners, and morning
coffee and rolls have cost her ninety francs—that is to say eighteen dollars.
Then she has spent one dollar upon flowers; her dejeuners (breakfasts)
have cost on an average two francs a day—two dollars and eighty cents for the
week. Total twenty-three dollars and eighty cents. Her list of pleasures and
self-indulgences may be as light or heavy as she chooses to make them.
Should more space be needed, or should she desire
to entertain, the traveler will find a wide choice of appartements meublés (furnished
apartments). These “flats,” as we should term them, are often
deliciously pretty and convenient—the homes of Parisians who wish for some
reason to sublet for a time. These can be had in good neighborhoods most
cheaply— that is to say, for prices ranging from forty dollars to one hundred
dollars. One servant in a small family will be quite sufficient, provided the
occupant of the flat will conform herself to French ways—take her quickly
prepared tray of coffee before rising, and make rather a practice of lunching
at the restaurants. This French servant will be quite content with ostensible
wages of twelve dollars a month—ostensible, because she recoups herself after
another fashion. Many Americans come home and rail violently at the dishonesty
and knavishness of the French servant, but after all the matter is financially
as broad as it is long. Here one would have to pay a neat clever creature who
could get one up delightful little dinners, brush one’s frocks, mend, clean,
act as lady’s maid, and housemaid, and butler — all with equal competence —
three times the wages the Parisian asks, and would look upon her as a rare
blessing sent straight from heaven. She would probably be quite honest, and
would not exact tradesmen’s commissions, but neither would she rise at
daylight, tramp half a mile, perhaps, to market, and carry her heavy basket of
purchases up half a dozen flights on her return. It is the custom of French
servants to ask small wages for a great deal of cheerful, competent service,
and then make up part of the difference by a little juggling with the market
books. Then why not accept the French way when one is in France? It certainly
avoids much friction and wear and tear. The experienced traveler will, however,
by a little experiment in the markets herself, get a general idea of the prices
of things, and thereby be enabled to check any attempt at really gross
overcharging. The French woman will respect her the more, for she dearly loves
a bargain, and admires the shrewd bargainer — when she is not pushed too close.
In travel through France this same system of
bargaining is always to be observed. The whole country is dotted with little
inns of excellent quality, where one had best put up during mere transient
excursions of a few days or a week; but it is a wise precaution to ascertain
all about prices at once, and have a clear
understanding what they are to be.
Very much the same advice given as
to France, serves in Italy and Spain— only that in the last two mentioned
countries they are even sharper bargainers, and must be dealt with firmly.
There are pensions, but the same rule holds good here as in France. A
sitting-room, bed-room, and dressing room cost, roundly, about a hundred francs
a month. Service and meals, lights and fires, are all extra, and are more or
less according to one’s needs. The trattoria system is in vogue in
Venice and Rome, and one Italian servant—of which there are many good ones—is
quite sufficient here, for as a rule she serves only as house-maid, and makes
the morning coffee; it being so widely the fashion to lunch and dine at the
restaurants. Another way is to take part of an Italian house, which is even
cheaper than an apartment—since there are so many people of good birth and
education living upon extremely narrow means in Italy, and with more space in
their homes than they need. They furnish all service except the furnishing of
meals—which they would be quite willing to add if the American lodger.
In Rome, Madrid, and in Paris, of
course, there are excellent dressmakers to be had at most reasonable rates.
They will come to one’s house and do all the fitting at such hours as are most
convenient, and in Paris some of them will dress their tiny mannikins in models
of such gowns as may be desired, to give the purchaser a chance to see how the
combination of colors and materials she has chosen will look when finished. In
all the Latin countries the shop-keepers are such keen traders that it is
considered no trouble to bring goods of any sort to one’s house to choose from.
In London the dressmakers—with the
exception of a few famous and expensive couturieres—are generally
incompetent and unsatisfactory. Their prices are high, they will not use the
customer’s own goods, and their cut and finish are quite “impossible.”
Here the better way to shop is in the great haberdasheries, where excellent
readymade and partly-made things are to be found at most reasonable rates. Very
many Americans borrow an English friend’s ticket to the enormous Army and Navy
Stores, and make there admirable bargains.
London is the best place to shop
for old silver-ware, and for Sheffield plate, which make such beautiful
souvenirs of travel. Paris is the place for old lace, the dainty and
inexpensive jewelry of the moment’s fashion, and all toilet articles; but this
is a subject too profound and expansive to be lightly touched in a single
paper. All travelers will soon discover for themselves the characteristic
souvenir.
A similar story is true of every
country, and every capital thereof. A little ingenuity and patience, a little
study and forethought, achieve for the traveler all delights, and smooth all
her paths. In Berlin she lives in a pension, for that is the best mode
of life there. In St. Petersburg she takes a furnished apartment. In India or
Japan she rents a whole house, furnishes it, and hires a corps of servants. If
only passing through on a flying trip, she goes to the hotels and finds life
fairly comfortable in all of them. But wherever she goes she carries her
talisman; she frankly and pleasantly accepts the ways of the country she is in
and adapts herself to them, and is amiable, grateful for courtesies,
self-reliant, and thoughtful in making plans for the future, as well as quick
to grasp the demands of any situation.
All directions and suggestions to travelers must of necessity be vague and general; each voyage, like each life, is individual and unique; but common sense and cheerful good temper are the two safest guides and most agreeable traveling companions.