And now for another installment from John Trusler’s The London Adviser and Guide: Containing every Instruction and Information Useful and Necessary to Persons Living in London and Coming to Reside There, 1786.
This post could possibly be the most boring post in the history of blogs, as Trusler explores the different insurance plans offered. I would advise reading a few of the policies and then skip down to the more interesting sections on preventing fire, as well as the city’s preventive measures and responses to fire.
I’ve tried to break up the tedium of the information with images from London: being an Accurate History and Description of the British metropolis and Its Neighbourhood : to Thirty Miles Extent, from an Actual Perambulation, 1809
19. When your house is furnished, the next precaution to be taken is, to insure it from fire: this may be done at several public insurance-offices, and at a very small annual premium. The landlord generally insures the buildings,
Several days ago, I came across The Mystery of Love, Courtship, and Marriage Explainedby Henry J. Wehman, published in 1890. This campy how-to book includes guides for “popping” the question, writing love letters, and managing a beau. Let’s learn the arts of handkerchief and fan flirtations.
Fan Flirtations
Carrying in right hand in front of face — Follow me. Carrying in left hand — Desirous of an acquaintance. Placing it on the right ear — You have changed. Twirling it in left hand — I wish to get rid of you. Drawing across forehead — We are watched. Carrying it in right hand — You are too willing. Drawing through the hand — I hate you. Twirling in right hand — I love another. Drawing across the cheek — I love you. Closing it — I wish to speak to you. Drawing across the eye — I am sorry. Letting it rest on right cheek — Yes. Letting it rest on left cheek — No. Open and shut — You are cruel. Dropping — We will be friends. Fanning slow — I am married. Fanning fast — I am engaged. With handle to lips — Kiss me. Shut — You have changed. Open wide — Wait for me.
Handkerchief Flirtations
Fans and flowers have each their language, and why not handkerchiefs? No reason having been discovered, it has transpired that handkerchief flirtations are rapidly coming into fashion. As the ” code of signals” is confined to a select few, but we do not intend that they shall enjoy the monopoly any longer, and accordingly publish the key.
It may be used at the opera, theatre, balls, and such places, but never in church; and we hope that this restriction will be observed, and are quite sure that it won’t.
Drawing across the lips — Desirous of an acquaintance. Drawing across the eyes — I am sorry. Taking it by the centre — You are too willing. Dropping — We will be friends. Twirling in both hands — Indifference. Drawing it across the cheek — I love you. Drawing it through the hands — I hate you. Letting it rest on the right cheek — Yes. Letting it rest on the left cheek — No. Twirling it in the left hand — I wish to speak to you. Twirling it in the right hand — I love another. Folding it — I wish to speak with you. Drawing it across the forehead — We are watched. Over the shoulder — Follow me. Opposite corners in both hands — Wait for me. Placing it on the right ear — You have changed. Letting it remain on the eyes — You are cruel. Winding around the forefinger — I am engaged. Winding around the third finger — I’m married. Putting it in the pocket — No more at present.
Harper, Alvan S. Woman in striped dress holding handkerchief. 1890 (circa). State Archives of Florida.
